Wednesday, November 20, 2013


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Who Was James? Written by Rosemary Norris, sister James was a beloved young man who in one way or another touched the lives of everyone he met. I’ve had many conversations about Jimmy over the years and people always say the same thing: he was unforgettable. After a story ran in the local newspaper about the identification of his remains I received numerous calls from people who just wanted to sh are a story with me about something they experienced with him. It surprised me that they remembered things in such detail. James had a charisma about him, a kind of magnetism that pulled people into his orbit. We never knew when he was going to pop in for a visit but when his car would pull up to the house, all of the kids in the neighborhood would come running to greet him. I always thought it was funny that even the neighborhood moms turned into flirty schoolgirls in his company. There really was never a dull moment when Jimmy was around. Like a lot of teenagers coming up in the 1960‘s Jimmy had his share of problems with authority. He was often frustrated with the conservatism of our town and as a teen he relished the attention he got when he rebelled against it. Though he was never arrested, he knew how to push buttons and enjoyed doing so. I can remember my mother getting angry with him now and again over some of the troubles he got into, but once he outgrew the worst of it, he brought her a lot of joy. James loved nature and animals; his Afghan hound, Casaelya, was his constant companion and he always had a cat or two. He seemed to enjoy and relate to the very different qualities of dogs and cats, the intense loyalty of dogs and the independence of cats. He enjoyed living close to the ocean, making time to take Casaelya for a romp on the beach on a regular basis. He also enjoyed hiking and found a lot of opportunities to do so, relishing the vast beauty of California. He was at his core a kind, gentle soul with a creative spirit and a brilliant mind. He was a poet, a dreamer, an artist, and a musician. He was generous and loyal, compassionate and loving. He was both teacher and student: he graduated from San Francisco State University with a bachelor’s degree and a lifetime teaching credential for adult education classes. He continued to take enrichment courses while teaching English as a Second Language (ESL) at an adult school in San Francisco that was popular with immigrants seeking American citizenship. I have often wondered what James might have done with his life had he not been murdered in the woods of Dixie County in 1974. I’m always interested to hear what others think. I find it remarkable that I often hear the same two things: he probably would have been a professor and he would have been an author. Many people also feel that he would have continued to care deeply about social and environmental issues and become an activist of sorts. Whatever he may have made of his life it would have changed others’ lives as well - the butterfly effect - and we’ll never know what could have been. Read the whole story here: www.whokilledjamesnorris.com Support his family's Facebook page: www.facebook.com/whokilledjamesnorris — with Rosemary Norris-Southward.

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